christian women’s coaching · san antonio

selah & breathe · a sacred pause for the weary woman


a sacred pause for the weary woman.

you have been the strong one,
the steady one, the one who shows up.

and you are tired in a place no one sees.

you’ve tried to push through. you’ve prayed about it on the way to carpool, in the parking lot, between meetings. selah & breathe is not another thing to do. it is a place to stop — long enough to be met by him.

three movements
every selah woman learns to walk.

  1. i

    rest


    set down what you've been carrying. permission to stop performing.

  2. ii

    rejuvenate


    be filled by Spirit, scripture, sabbath. not fixed — filled.

  3. iii

    reconnect


    return to him, to yourself, to the women beside you.

from wounded
to walking it out.

six months. five stages. one promise: when life triggers you again — and it will — you will know the way home.

we don’t promise that everything will be fine all the time. we promise the work of self-leadership in faith — so you can name the trigger, reach for your practices, and return.

  1. i.

    arrival

    weeks 1—4
    the shift

    we lower the volume on what's loud. you stop being asked to perform — first by me, eventually by yourself.

    what we do together
    • weekly 60-minute 1:1 coaching call (zoom)
    • a guided “what i've been carrying” written inventory
    • a daily 10-minute scripture & breath rhythm, built around your real life
    • voice-note access between sessions for one-line check-ins

    matthew 11:28come to me, all you who are weary, and i will give you rest.

    i'm finally allowed to stop.

  2. ii.

    awareness

    weeks 5—8
    the shift

    we name what got buried so you could keep going. grief becomes a doorway, not a verdict.

    what we do together
    • weekly 60-minute 1:1 coaching call
    • a guided naming inventory — wounds, losses, places of resentment
    • lament practice rooted in the Psalms — we walk through it together
    • daily journaling prompts you can finish in under 15 minutes

    psalm 34:18the Lord is near to the brokenhearted.

    i see what i've been carrying.

  3. iii.

    receive

    weeks 9—16
    the shift

    you stop trying to fix yourself and start letting yourself be filled. spirit, scripture, sabbath as practices, not concepts.

    what we do together
    • weekly 60-minute 1:1 coaching call
    • the human flourishing rhythm — happiness, mental & physical health, meaning & purpose, character
    • a weekly sabbath practice we design around your real life
    • the john 10:10 framework — “life to the full” as the measuring stick

    john 10:10i came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.

    i'm being filled, not fixed.

  4. iv.

    reconnect

    weeks 17—22
    the shift

    you re-enter relationships from a healed place. not performing, not avoiding. you say the true thing kindly.

    what we do together
    • weekly 60-minute 1:1 coaching call
    • close-relationship practice — the lived-out flourishing domains: relationships and character
    • a boundary & communication rhythm — short scripts you can actually use
    • a “people inventory” — who you re-engage, who you release

    romans 12:18as far as it depends on you, live at peace with all.

    i'm coming home.

  5. v.

    self-lead

    weeks 23—26
    the shift

    the work moves from me to you. when life triggers you again — and it will — you know the way home.

    what we do together
    • bi-weekly 60-minute 1:1 coaching call (less, on purpose)
    • your personal “way home” map — written, kept, used
    • a trigger-to-practice index unique to you
    • a graduation session: what you take with you, what comes next

    psalm 23:3he restores my soul.

    i know my way home.

the investment

six months.
one path home.

a flagship 1:1 coaching journey — twenty-four sessions, your own scripture & sabbath rhythm, voice-note access between sessions, and a way home you’ll keep for the rest of your life.

early-bird · paid in full

$2,000

first five clients only

six monthly payments

$400/mo

$2,400 total · the easiest yes

book a free selah call

no commitment. we’ll talk for thirty minutes and decide together if the journey is right for you.



“be still,
and know
that i am God.”

psalm 46:10

the
selah woman.

she is faith-rooted, exhausted, and over-functioning. she is a mom in a season of being needed by everyone. she is a young woman finding her way. she is a pastor’s wife in the shadows. she is a teen girl carrying more than her age should hold.

she has tried to just push through. she wants to grow but she doesn’t want to be fixed. she wants permission to stop performing — and tools to stay healed once she does.

if any of this is naming something true in you, this is where to begin.

a free
selah call.

thirty quiet minutes. no pitch. we name what you’ve been carrying and i’ll tell you honestly whether the journey is where you should begin — or whether something else is.

book a selah call

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